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We Have a Major Update on Drew Sidora and Her Husband
The RHOA cast member opened up about her marriage to Ralph Pittman.
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Atlanta rookie Drew Sidora is giving fans an inside look at her marriage to Ralph Pittman during Season 13 of The Real Housewives of Atlanta. Viewers are getting a peek at the relationship between the newest Atlanta Peach and her husband, including highly emotional moments like the conversation earlier this season during which Drew tried to figure out where Ralph went without telling her.
Drew addressed that moment on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen on January 3. "That was a first. He had never left town for multiple days," she said. While she said there was a previous time he went to the airport to catch a flight before changing his mind ("he came to his senses and came home"), she noted he had never actually followed through on it before the time they discussed this season.
Kandi Burruss recently shared her thoughts on their relationship during a separate appearance on WWHL late last month, including his trip to Tampa and him watching Drew on the security camera. "Oh no, that would have never flew at the Tucker house. Just know that," she said, adding if she thinks counseling might be a good option for them.
Kandi also expressed her opinion about Ralph on Twitter this past Sunday, writing, "Yes. He’s really nice in person. I don’t see the side that we’re seeing on the show because that’s their personal stuff that happens when we aren’t around."
The January 3 episode of RHOA included Drew and Ralph attending a counseling session with Ralph telling the counselor that what he wants most is "respect and sex" in their relationship. Drew offered some insight into how counseling is affecting their relationship now.
She said on WWHL, "We're on that journey. Just doing the work. And, as you saw, he opened up a little about his past, so there is some trauma as I learned from Coach Love. And he's working on himself and he is committed to the marriage."
She also found out something else in counseling with her husband — and it has something to do with those security cameras: "We bought our home together. It's security cameras everywhere. He is in IT and he is now, as he shared to me recently in counseling, he wanted to make sure we were safe and that was the reason why he was watching us on the camera."
And this just in, Drew shared a big update on WWHL on where the couple stands today: "But I want to say this as we start off 2021, Andy, he actually surprised us and he took me and the family and we are at the beach right now. So I'm not even in Atlanta. i just wanted to let you know things are happening."
She shared a similar sentiment on Instagram in recent weeks when sharing photos from a family holiday photo shoot: "Looking ahead toward growth, forgiveness and love."
Want more RHOA? New episodes air every Sunday at 8/7c or catch up through the Bravo app.
Watch a preview, below.
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