Carlton's Negativity Doesn't Affect Me

Hola mis amores. This week was very busy, as my big charity event is quickly approaching. It's a lot of work but so worth it. I hope to see many of you there in March.

On this week's episode we all see Carlton's party. She invited us, and, frankly until I saw her interviews, I never knew she had a problem with me -- so my husband and I went. When we arrived we gave David a nice bottle of champagne and he was sweet and welcoming. Carlton, on the other hand, wasn't so welcoming and seeing the face she made when she said hello to me, I wish I would've politely declined her invitation.

The best part of the party was when Carlton's friend AC sang; she sings beautiful. The worst part of the party was when one of the strippers got stuck to the pole because it was so hot in the sun. I felt so bad for her, it was humiliating for the poor girl.

Kim was very cute at her autograph signing. She's fun!

Kyle was great at her Days of Our Lives appearance. She looked like she was having a really good time.

Yolanda invited us to her home to do a painting party for Gigi so she could take the canvases with her to NY. I thought it was a beautiful idea.

When I arrived, Yolanda and I had a very nice chat for about 30 minutes. Then Carlton arrived a bit stressed out and decided to attack from the beginning. First she says I'm "labeling" Brandi because I asked if we should leave the wine in the house. I didn't exactly want to hike Yolanda's steps carrying the heavy bucket of ice if no one was drinking it.When we walked outside Carlton told me this confusing sentence: "I like you, but I didn't want to like you, but I really like you!" WTF?!? I think Carlton needs to define herself and try to be true to herself. She claims I need attention, but I'm not the one desperately licking poles or trying so hard to showcase the very same things I criticize about others.

After hiking Yolanda's steps, which by the way are GREAT! I wish I did those every day. That's why Yolanda has such a great butt. LOL.

Brandi arrived and we were all having a nice time painting when Carlton's paranoia kicks in. She says she had a dream that Kyle is talking s--- about her. (This is just after Kyle gave her a beautiful necklace to try to start fresh with her...)

As I clearly said to her: if she has a problem with Kyle she should talk to her about it. Unfortunately Carlton would not let go of the subject. The entire painting party became about her talking about Kyle. Then Brandi says that Kyle is scared that Carlton will put a spell on her. That's when I said: "Spells only get to you if you believe in them." I respect every religion and have friends that practice a lot of different religions, including witches. But I still haven't met anyone as judgmental as Carlton. I think she literally uses her Wicca for shock value and wants everyone to believe and be intimidated by her witchcraft. Guess what? I am not scared of YOU! And YES!!! My GOD is so powerful that protects me against any negativity you throw my way.

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She basically threatens to "put a spell" saying: "Go home tonight and watch what happens." I believe in life we create our own happiness; and the only bad energies that enter your world are the things you allow to come in. As I don't believe in any of Carlton's negativity, it doesn't affect me.

What was shocking was to see Brandi crossing fingers hoping the hex would work. Brandi. . .watch it! What you wish for others comes back to you double.

My husband believes in energy and in surrounding yourself with positive people. That night we went to dinner and I told him what Carlton said to me. He told me that even though I didn't believe in any of it he hated the fact that she was threatening to put a spell on me. Then he got really sick.

Personally I think maybe he was going to get sick anyhow and the power of suggestion is such a strong thing that he allowed his thoughts to believe it was the hex.

We have a wonderful friend who is a Rabbi. I just love him and his wife. The next day they came right away and blessed our home against any negativity.

As you saw in the preview, in next week's episode I confront Carlton about her threats.

Until next time
xoxo