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Ubah Hassan Reveals "Nerve-Wracking" Aspect of Relationship with Boyfriend Oliver

RHONY's Ubah Hassan dished on her romance with German investment banker Oliver Dachsel. 

By Shannon Raphael

Ubah Hassan is sharing new details about her relationship with boyrfriend Oliver Dachsel (who you may remember as "Mr. Connecticut" from Season 14 of The Real Housewives of New York City).

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The model opened up about how she really feels now that she's gone public with her romance when she visited Bravo HQ in September 2024. 

"Honestly, it's been so much fun because I'm a person who loves love, and it's exciting to have girls who really genuinely really are happy for you," Ubah explained as she sat next to bestie Sai De Silva. "So, it's been really fun sharing it."

Ubah Hassan reveals if she's ready for kids with boyfriend Oliver Dachsel

Now that Ubah is happily settled in her relationship with Oliver — and they've discussed the idea of her moving to his home in Greenwich, Connecticut — have they considered growing their family?

Ubah said that the two aren't trying yet, but she sometimes stresses out about waiting awhile. 

"You know, it's very scary because I have young friends — younger than me — and they're having a lot of fertility problems..." she explained during her time at Bravo HQ in New York City. "Every dinner conversation with girls is usually about 'I've been trying for two years,' and I'm like, 'Oh, my God. You're like five years younger than me.'"

Ubah Hassan wearing a black blazer in front of a purple backdrop.

Thankfully, Ubah has her RHONY friends she can turn to for support.

"I call Sai and Erin [Lichy], they're like, 'Girl, relax. You need to relax... just have fun,'" Ubah continued. "I'm not gonna lie, it's a little nerve-wracking, but I have an incredible support [system] around me through friends and him himself. So, I don't know. We'll see. We haven't started trying yet, so." 

Who is Ubah Hassan's boyfriend, Oliver Dachsel?

Ubah's beau is a German investment banker who is a managing director at Jeffries. She kept his identity private when they first started dating during filming for RHONY Season 14.  

Oliver was often referred to as "Mr. Connecticut" on RHONY, but Ubah went public with their relationship in October 2023. 

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