Quad: I'm Not One for Conflict

It really pains me that I have to conduct a background investigation on someone that I once considered a friend. My intentions were not to hurt or harm “She Who Shall Not Be Named” or her family; however, I did want to set an example as to how NOT to treat a friend. Her behavior and actions were highly disappointing, inappropriate, and unjustifiable. Again, “She Who Not Be Named” and I have never discussed doing business together. I don’t work for her, she doesn’t work for me. She’s not an investor, stockholder, or business partner in Picture Perfect Pup, and she never will be.

Here’s the real tea. 

It’s really petty that I have to stoop to her level to conduct a background investigation. Let’s just remember #WithoutACallThereIsNoResponse

It was not my motive to conduct a background investigation on “She Who Shall Not Be Named” until she boastfully and arrogantly came into the Halloween party insinuating that there was something else is in my background, although there's not. I do not take kindly to blackmail. Actually, I’m not one for conflict. If you notice over the years, I’ve never started anything with anyone, but I will finish it.

While Dr. G’s prayers are going up, the actions are unfolding. Where I’m from, do unto others, as they do unto you. #Matthew7:12 An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. #Matthew5:38 What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. #MyGranny

It amazes me how there’s a double standard amongst this group of friends. Where they hit me over the head with mallets and pianos, they expect me to touch them with a feather. I don’t know very many people who would have allowed this to take place and not reciprocate the action. I don’t know who’s on her advisory board, but with her background, they are setting her up for failure. It doesn’t matter how they TRY to spit venom on my name, in the words of Aretha Franklin, “A Rose is Still a Rose.”
I wasn’t interested in her tax problems, although she seems to think that’s the most scandalous thing in her background. Trust me, it’s most definitely NOT.

“She Who Shall Not Be Named” is a bus driver, honey! She is really throwing Darren under the bus, and I really like him too! I think he’s a nice guy, outside of doing all that gossiping with his wife. If my memory services me correctly, last year“She Who Shall Not Be Named” introduced her husband’s cheating habits to the group. Hold the line…did he really just say “messy people” when his wife is the mayor of Messyville, USA. I wonder, did he find it messy when she conducted a background investigation on me while we were friends? Now, hiding behind false statements about us doing business together. #Perpetrating #Treacherous #Immoral #Fraud

In “She Who Shall Not Be Named's” own words, “Once you’re married, his problems became my problems.” Honestly, me conducting a background investigation on Darren is just by default. They are “one.” Darren states, and I quote, “When you make a lot of money, you owe a lot of taxes.” I just can’t stop laughing! Everyone in this group is coined, well almost everyone. It’s peculiar to me, no one else is being chased by Uncle Sam and his army. #CatchThatDirt #PayThePeople

Moving on to Simone and Toya. I completely understand where Simone is coming from. Oftentimes, people who are not involved in a situation may think you’re overreacting or try to make the decision for you to move forward. However, those who are NOT directly involved are NOT entitled to make the decision for an individual who is involved on when to forgive. Give it time! Allow the swelling to go down, and let the hearts mend.

Jackie’s “Fit Is the New It” is my always. So honey, I’ll be participating!
Stay tuned for Episode 3. It gets hot and heavy.
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