Luann D'Agostino: Getting Married Is a Big Deal

You can tell a lot about a woman by observing her body language. This is what struck me most while watching this episode. Regardless of what the ladies said about Tom, I remained cool and collected, because I know it’s not true. The smile on my face was real, because I was really happy! As for Ramona, her body language was all over the place…literally! Dorinda’s furniture didn’t stand a chance. Thank goodness her boyfriend is a dry cleaning expert. When the girls started a fire in a non-working fireplace, did Dorinda freak out? No, she stayed focused on us while her house filled with smoke. I’m so glad Dorinda is one of my bridesmaids. She’s a loyal friend and an amazing hostess.

Getting married is a big deal, and most brides feel a bit nervous before walking down the aisle. It’s normal to have pre-wedding jitters. I believe in marriage, and that is why I took my decision to marry Tom very seriously. As for Tom and I having an occasional spat (as lovers do), we don’t harbor grudges. Also, Tom and I are of the same mindset when it comes to looking forward, not back. I tried to share my perspective on life and love with girls, especially with Bethenny, but they weren’t having any of it. I think in the end, the girls finally realized that Tom and I are getting married and that we are both looking forward to a life of happiness together. Love wins the day.

Until next week, accept your friends for who they are.