Double Standards Among the 'Wives

Hello everyone,

I hope you are enjoying the show so far, and that through my blogs you are able to get a little more insight as to who I am and my thoughts on everything going on.

We start off tonight's show with Lisa trying on lingerie for the party she is hosting. Regardless of the lingerie she chooses, she will look amazing no matter what!

We then cut to Lea in the final stages of her preparations for her gala. I admire her and Lisa very much for taking the time to help out wonderful causes. It is admirable and worth recognizing. It is refreshing to see that there are people in Miami who are not always thinking about themselves. Their time and effort to be part of a philanthropic cause sets an example to all others not only in Miami, but everywhere.

Now cut to Lea, Joanna, and Alexia. Alexia mentioning, that "I was new to the game"? All I have to say is she is obviously just "playing" with herself.

The article that Adriana is referring to is from the Miami Herald, in which I was introduced to a woman at an event. We were casually speaking and she asked me how I felt about this new group of women I had started hanging out with. I was very truthful in saying that some of these women were very catty and that they would create fights to try to make themselves look better. I did say I would not stoop to their level (which I think up to now, all of you have noticed that I haven't), and that I would just "kill them with kindness." If you read the article, you will notice that the only part that I actually said is in quotes. "Kill them with kindness" is a direct quotation; everything else is not in quotes, which goes to show you that I didn't say it. If I would have said something else, she could have used more quotes. It's pretty much black and white. Some of you may wonder why I am always smiling, especially in front of some of these women. That quote sums it up. There are people in this world that are so immature and want to pick any and every fight with you, whether it’s because of their own insecurities, jealousy, or simply because they want attention. When you don't react and don't get flustered, it irks them even more. They get more aggravated at the fact that they couldn't accomplish their goal, which was to get me riled up.

Joanna is a huge activist for PETA, and I think it was wonderful that Lisa offered up her home in order for Joanna to be able to do it in Miami and not miss out on Lisa's lingerie party.

At Lisa's lingerie party, Joanna had personally mentioned to me that she couldn't believe Joe Francis would be attending and he loved spreading lies that he had supposedly slept with her. About 20 minutes after she tells me this, I hear Joe acting all cocky and telling people that he slept with both Krupa sisters. I hate rumors and hearsay, so when I heard him spreading those nasty lies about Joanna, I felt an obligation to nip it in the bud and take Joe directly to Joanna. She has been an amazing friend to me, and I would appreciate it if someone helped me put a stop to someone lying about me immediately.

Also, Joanna was offended by Marysol wearing fur. We all have the liberty to wear what we like when we want it. But these other women keep saying that the new girls need to prove ourselves to them and make an effort to become friends. Knowing full well that a friend stood for something so important and that it was 85 degrees in Miami, it didn't seem like Marysol really respected or cared for Joanna's beliefs. So, why is it that we are the only ones who supposedly need to earn their friendship? I am not saying you can't wear it, I am just saying couldn't you choose a party where you knew Joanna wouldn't be there and where it would be more appropriate to cover up, like in the winter? Just saying... Joanna had asked me to go up to Marysol to find out if it was real fur, because she was livid, and it would be much nicer coming from me than to receive Joanna's wrath, because she was so hurt that someone in the group could be so insensitive. That is the only reason I went up to her.

I leave you with this thought:

As you can tell by now, friendships and loyalties have formed between women, and at the end of the day, everything becomes transparent. Isn't it interesting how some of these women set double standards?

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