Bullying Tactics

Thank you to all my new friends, I love you! For without you, I just wouldn't have made it through! Your loving messages mean the world to me! Wow! So much happened this season! 

What seems to make the other wives on the show thrive and be happy is to bully me, wish ill upon me, and hurt or insult me. Sad to have to see any human being act this way. I was happy I never experienced it in school, and I couldn't believe that women who are mothers would act that way. Many of you have messaged me that exact statement. I agree. Disturbing. Seeing them sit around drinking wine in the morning and cheering at the television set during the Congressional hearing as if they were watching sports was uncivilized behavior to me.

I remember leaving this reunion taping and feeling dirty. All I knew is that I had to take a shower to feel better. The other women really enjoy bullying me and take great pleasure in it.    

The continued bullying tactics from the wives against me about my illness was really shocking, heart breaking, and a rather disturbing experience. The behavior in this reunion and the insults and attacks on me are not how women I know act. I hope that no one has to go through this type of thing and endure it along with an illness. Very painful. 

When people don't have the grace to respect someone's illness, it's sad.

Stacie was inaccurate about what real estate we own. Doing her own research as an agent would be best, not going off others' opinions and gossip. I agree with what Naomi Campbell said to her, "why do you feel the need to tell Michaele they are all talking behind her back?" Gossip and hate only consumes those who hold on to it. Thank You Naomi for looking out for me! I love you!  

 From what we had been told, Lolly was aware of the theft of a car and polo gear. This was hard to hear and see. It hurt everyone.  While we put this behind us, it was brought back up again at the reunion. Lolly's Facebook friend was the one who drove the car. Her Facebook friend has since apologized to the police and some of the gear was recovered from him. Last we heard from the authorities, he was going to meet with the others involved and get a few more of the items they had taken to give back. All we know is what the authorities told us. Throughout the reunion the term "hat" was given. In fact it was a helmet that was worn. While this was painful to go through, we forgave and moved forward. Mary refers to her closet and clothes being removed by Lolly and how it upsets her, can you imagine those who aren't family and experience the same treatment of having things stolen. Enough said.  

Jason Backe ... his statement was "Michaele invited us." No. Jason and Ted in fact asked the night before the dinner if they could be added to go. They asked! Our attourney was able to help them attend. Again neither the Secret Service nor Security ever removed us. His story is so outrageous.  

In fact, many witnesses interviewed saw us enter through the main entrance with other guests enjoying the entire evening including one of our attorneys. The facts is (and I don't know why we seem to always be defending ourseleves) we never crashed that event or the White House.  

The facts are proven best by watching the episode of the show, which as we indicated previously, are when pictures are worth more than a thousand words. We are especially proud of when Bravo showed the video portion of the producer asking me what to look for. I'm glad they kept it real.

Let's get back to helping the stray "Cat" about her invitation to the White House. I think she was uninvited by her husband not by the White House. Keepin' it real Cat! Your Dad went in your place and that was the right thing to do, to share.

I was very happy to see Tareq defend me, rise above it all, and even apologize to Lynda. However, I was sad to see Lynda couldn't do the same to me for all the pain she has caused me. I really hope she blesses herself instead of the yard, it is much needed at this time.

I will be appearing at and supporting the National Multiple Sclerosis event in Chicago, November 13th, at the Hard Rock Hotel. For more information, please go to www.Multiple-Solutions.org. Hope to see you there!

Thanks for watching Season 1 and I hope you enjoyed learning about us. More to come!

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Love you very much!

OXO

MICHAELE