Cary Deuber: Who Cares If People Are Talking About You?

Well, we all know that karma is a bitch, and it looks like LeeAnne has definitely found her…

LeeAnne is, however, handling it better than I did when it was MY relationship that was on display. I am still wondering why D’Andra and Brandi are up in her grill about her wedding? (Maybe they’re just really excited to get some cake?) It does seem to me that because Brandi is pushing LeeAnne about her personal life, LeeAnne is pushing back with the “alcoholic” stuff… Maybe not the best long-term strategy.

Even when you are rightfully pissed, it doesn’t give you the right to diagnose someone with alcoholism. That’s very serious, and it doesn’t fix anything. Like I said, “That’s a big word,” and I don’t look forward to this conversation coming back up again.

Back to my own business, which I’m trying my best to mind. My family across the pond! My grandfather on my father’s side is from Denmark. He came to the United States in his early 20’s. My dad was born in the United States; however, he lost his father when he was young and wanted to learn more about his dad’s family. When my father reached out and found our cousins in Denmark, I was only in high school. We went on a trip to Denmark to meet our family (my first and only trip there until now…), but I don’t think I was old enough to really appreciate all my father had done to get in touch with our relatives. I am very thankful that he reached out all those years ago and really want to be able to pass this cherished connection on to my daughter and her future family as well. Looking forward to what’s coming up on the horizon!

Now, I have to admit, I’m a bit confused at the mural reveal. I had not heard about this sh-- sandwich that got cooked up at the lake house. Kam seems like she is applying her value system to D’Andra’s life. I think Kam is trying to look out for D’Andra, but she is a big girl and can make her own choices. I’m not sure why D’Andra would let this upset her, however… Who cares if people are talking about you?

All in all, it seems like many of the ladies are getting their buttons pushed this week (and pushing back!). But I am happy to have brought some positivity by sharing my family story and seeing the family love between Stephanie and her husband, Travis. It warmed my heart to see Brandi with him secretly shopping for Steph, and I know she’s going to love her new bling. Add it to the safe!