Bienvenidos to Miami!

Bienvenidos to Miami! NeNe invited Kandi and me to Miami for an all-girls weekend, and it certainly was just that. Literally an ALL girls weekend! What happens in Miami, stays in Miami right? Well, not really, but we will get to that later.

Here we go! I have been extremely busy with married life, motherhood, and opening up The Bailey Agency, so I welcomed the beautiful sands of South Beach with open arms. I could not wait to jump into my two-piece and spend some time with the girls. We had a blast! There was very little drama, and we got along great. Kandi was cool, and I think we all genuinely had a good time together. We all connected on this trip as smart business women who are making big things happen in our own way. It was a weekend of delicious cocktails, great food, clubbing, and "girl power" at its finest. Lots and lots of "girl power"! I did not attend Kim's birthday party, because I was not invited. We really don't know each other that well, so it was no surprise not to get an invite. Those special moments should be reserved for your closest friends and family. I can respect that, and I wish her a happy birthday all the same. However, I was a little surprised that on such a joyous occasion my name even came up. I thought the way the girls talked about NeNe was mean and offensive. The use of the B word and speaking in such a negative manner in front of children at a birthday celebration was just irresponsible. Where was the eating cake and ice cream and opening presents?

Kim doesn't seem to think I have a backbone, because I'm friends with NeNe. I have enough of a backbone to respect the union of marriage and not date another woman's husband. Or did we forget about that? I really don't understand why NeNe and Kim's breakup has anything to do with me. I don't have an issue with Kim. Or any of the other girls for that matter. They makeup and breakup when they are ready, and it's all good. I am close with NeNe, Kandi  is close with Phaedra, and Kim is close with Sheree.  What's the problem?
At the end of the day, it's so easy to be nasty, and that takes very little effort and zero talent. Calling other women the B word all day has to be exhausting mentally and spiritually. I thought new love and pregnancy were happy times where you embrace life and positivity. Motherhood is beautiful, and being in love is the cherry on top! Rest assured, I have a backbone and very beautiful cheek bones to go with it. Enjoy your wonderful blessings and I will enjoy mine.

Warmly,
Cynthia

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