Enough Is Enough ...

I first want to say how emotional that day was when we filmed the reunion show; I was mortified. I don't see the point in yelling, screaming, and threatening someone. We are all grown women -- there is absolutely no need for that. I finally lost my cool and felt as though I had to defend myself. I have nothing to hide. I believe when you do you naturally become defensive. Keep that in mind.

NeNe, well what can I say? I don't feel the need to say hurtful comments true or not to someone and try to bring them down. There is NO good that can come out of that, nothing positive. NeNe and I have since moved past all that happened before, during and after the show. And sooner than later we will have that glass of wine. LOL.

Lisa: For Lisa to insinuate I lied about something as serious as cancer is disgusting. I met Lisa when I started filming this show in the spring. She didn't know me three years ago to even make that statement. I would NEVER EVER joke, kid, or use cancer as an excuse. I have a very close family member whom I love dearly, my uncle John, who I almost lost two years ago to cancer; it was devastating to me. Cancer is a serious subject, one many battle daily. By the grace of God my test results proved negative and I battled other things. Today I am healthy, happy, and oh so very thankful to be here.

When Andy Cohen asked me who told me about NeNe singing in the limo and I said Lisa, she freaked. She DID tell me, but rather than admit it she passed blame on me, screaming "You are a habitual liar, etc, etc." A liar I am not! I am big on integrity; all you have is your word. She continued to attack me never getting to the bottom of the question. I even had phone bills to prove I spoke with her that day. She yelled and screamed so much that she didn't have to accept the responsibility of her actions. I never really did see it to be a big deal to be honest that she did tell me but to her it was.

My hair ... call me vain, call me superficial, call me what you will, but I am Kim and I chose to not walk around without hair. It's a personal choice period. I have read some comments about me being on a show back five years ago with fake hair. NOPE!! All real, just looking a mess ... LOL. Dallas, hmmm ... what can I say ... I haven't spoken to Dallas since he posted his comment on his MySpace, not really sure why he did. The proof is in the pudding.

Gosh all the comments about me singing ... I know ... I know ... I know. The footage you saw was hilarious. At first I was mortified out of all the hours in the studio and that was the clip that was used, but I realized rather quickly ... Go show them Kim; it has motivated me even more. I have never claimed to be the best singer but I will chase my dreams, succeed at them, live for me, and do what makes me happy, and I can assure you all the negative comments have made me work even harder. THANK YOU BLOGGERS.

One last thing: I was never angry with NeNe because she told me I couldn't sing. She never told ME that. That is her opinion and we all have one. I didn't become friends with Sheree because she told me I could. Reread that back again ... doesn't that sound stupid? EXACTLY.

Friends ... true ones, will tell you like it is, bring you up when you are down, make you smile when you're crying ... you catch my drift? My mantra is "Don't worry about the people in your past. There is a reason they didn't make it into your future."

THANK YOU Brielle and Ariana for being supportive, understanding, and keeping me laughing throughout this whole journey, Thank You God for giving me the strength to perservere, Thank You True Entertainment, Bravo, thank you NeNe (she was the one who mentioned me to producers when they were casting). Thank you Princess Banton ... I could go on forever. Thank you fans. I hope there will be a time where I can blog yet again. Until then Happy Holidays and remember "God can take it from you as quick as he gave it to you" Dont take anything for granted ... NOTHING! I look forward to watching Orange County. Good luck, ladies, and I wish you much success.

XOXOXO from Atlanta