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Does Erika Jayne Have a Boyfriend? "I'm Very Direct..."

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills' Erika Jayne is opening up about her dating life after her divorce.

By Casey Suglia

Erika Jayne is not on any dating apps at the moment, following her split from her ex-husband, Tom Girardi, and she does not have a boyfriend. 

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The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills cast member has been hesitant about jumping into a relationship since her divorce, and according to a recent podcast appearance, she isn't necessarily looking for love at the moment, either.

Erika appeared alongside RHOBH alum, Teddi Mellencamp, during an episode of her podcast, Two T's in a Pod on Nov. 1. It was here where she revealed that she is not on the celebrity dating app, Raya. "I probably should be on there, but I'm not," Erika said. "Does anyone know how to get me on? I have no [idea]."

After Teddi offered to run Erika's Raya profile during the episode, she did consider joining — especially since she revealed that she's not great at talking to men. "I'm very direct, I'm very to the point, and men don't like that," Erika explained. 

Elsewhere during the podcast episode, Erika also revealed why dating apps aren't her preferred method of meeting someone. "I never look at men and find them attractive," she told Teddi. "I always say this. I'm never looking at the way someone looks, necessarily. I'm always looking at the feeling I get from them."

Erika also explained that she's a little hesitant to get on dating apps after her RHOBH cast member, Garcelle Beauvais, had a not-so-great experience on them. "She got off because she saw everybody she knew, and it was weird," Erika explained with a laugh. 

Erika Jayne wearing a black dress in her living room.

Why is Erika Jayne avoiding dating?

Erika previously appeared on Two T's in a Pod in late August, where she said she is "never going back" to dating again and revealed that she isn't likely to get married again, either. "I don't feel that that's where I'm at," she explained.

"I have a lot of work to do and I really just want to be successful on my own," she continued. "I have, for my first time, my own thing. For real, for real. And being a grown-up, you know? Like this isn't being 20 and being married to your husband, and having a child...this is Erika out on her own, doing it, and it feels good."

Needless to say, Erika has been excited to explore her independence on her own. "I want to see what else I can do because, if you're involved with a man, and certainly a powerful man, there's a price to pay," she concluded. 

What to expect from Erika Jayne on RHOBH Season 14

Erika's independence will continue to be explored on RHOBH Season 14. Per her official cast bio for the season: "It's out with the old and in with the new as Erika Jayne sheds her old life by getting rid of the furniture she's held onto from her marriage. Though her legal issues aren't completely gone, she can finally breathe and move forward. Just as things are looking up, Erika finds herself playing middleman between friends, Kyle [Richards] and Dorit [Kemsley], forcing her to navigate rocky terrain."

Viewers can see Erika shed her old life when RHOBH Season 14 premieres on Tuesday, Nov. 19 at 8 p.m. ET/PT. Episodes will be available to stream the next day on Peacock.

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