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Does Naomie Olindo Let Metul Shah Make Decisions for Her?

The Southern Charm girlfriend explains her "adult" relationship.

By Hannah Fusaro Jul 22, 2019, 9:01 AM ET

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Naomie Olindo decided not to go on the Colorado trip with her Southern Charm friends, explaining that she didn't want to go away with her ex-boyfriend, Craig Conover, given that she is in a new relationship with boyfriend Metul Shah. Now in the Southern Charm After Show, Naomie is clarifying that Metul does not control her and she's the one who chose not to go away.

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"Metul would never make a decision for me. I don't think that's in my DNA," Naomie said.

So why didn't Naomie go to Colorado?

"I'm in an adult relationship. Like adult relationships, you care about other people's feelings and you respect their feelings," she explained. "[It was] absolutely not an issue of, 'Oh, he didn't let you go; he's controlling.' It's literally the opposite."

See what else she said to say about her decision to stay back in the video above. And watch how the rest of the Colorado trip turns out on Southern Charm every Wednesday at 9/8c. Preview, below.