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In Tom's Hands

Tom opens up about porn.

Kathy asked me once if I'm into porn, and I just honestly said, "As much as the next guy..." Like I told Kathy when she first hired me, I'm into porn no more or less than the average male. Note to job seekers: "DON'T SAY THIS TO YOUR PROSPECTIVE EMPLOYER."

Of course Kathy found my porn and pulled it out while the cameras were rolling. And then she laughed...disgustedly. (Oh, and Kathy also makes assumptions about why my showers are so long. Let me just say that a man has needs.) I might as well just put it all out there now...


I don't think I'm necessarily into porn. It's just that if it's there and I have nothing else to do I'll look at it. Whatever's lying around, I'll peruse it. I wouldn't limit myself to just one type of porn because I like many types, but nice wholesome porn is good.

As Kathy discovered, I kind of prefer the older ladies a little bit. Have you ever heard of a M.I.L.F? Yes, I like the M.I.L.F.s. I'm sure everybody knows what a M.I.L.F. is, but if you don't you'll have to find out on your own.


As far as real women go, generally what turns me on to a woman is a sense of humor about everything, especially herself. I like all sorts of looks, so I can't pinpoint one specific physical type. All I can say is, when a woman knows exactly what she is doing and wants to involve me in that, well that is the sexiest thing she can do. I know what you must be thinking, but I was asked to talk about it, so I did. To be honest, I think a woman at any age has the potential to be as sexy as she can be.

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