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We Finally Know What Drew Sidora's Husband Ralph Pittman Really Did in Tampa

The Real Housewives of Atlanta husband revealed all about that mysterious trip during the Season 13 reunion.

By Laura Rosenfeld

The Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 13 reunion just kicked off on April 25, and we already have our answer to one of the biggest mysteries of the season: What did Drew Sidora's husband, Ralph Pittman, really do in Tampa?

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We first heard about Ralph's trip to Tampa during the couple's anniversary dinner earlier this season of RHOA. Drew confronted her husband about where he went when he left the house for three days and why he didn't communicate with her during that time. Later, when Ralph wasn't happy about everything that happened at Cynthia Bailey's bachelorette party, Drew reminded him that she still didn't know "the details of Tampa."

Ralph showed that he was "ready" to sit down with Drew's fellow Atlanta Housewives and Andy Cohen at the reunion in a post on Instagram where he looked debonair in his tuxedo.

Drew also noted on Twitter that she knew her husband would be in the "hot seat" at the reunion.

After Ralph joined the RHOA ladies at the reunion, Andy asked Drew if she had intended to bring the Tampa trip up during that anniversary dinner. "Hell no. We were having such a great day. Like, I think I woke up, he made shrimp and grits, popped a bottle of champagne," Drew explained. "But as the day progressed and we were having dinner, I was just like, I can't let this go. Like, I just can't pretend on our anniversary that this was OK."

Andy then read one fan's question asking Drew if she ever thought Ralph could have been with another woman on his trip. "Of course that went through my mind," Drew said. "But Ralph has never given me a reason to think he's been unfaithful."

And then came the million dollar question from Andy: "Ralph, we received a tremendous amount of questions about this, so obviously everyone wants to know: Who or what was in Tampa for three days?"

Ralph revealed exactly why he went to Tampa. "I needed to get away," he said at the reunion. "The beach is like my place of refuge."

Drew shared that she and Ralph went to counseling, and he provided receipts — literally — from his getaway. "He actually printed off the hotel receipts, so I did see the dates of the hotel," Drew recalled. "He actually showed me the restaurant receipts where it said 'number of guests,' and it said one."

Ralph also showed Drew an app on his smartwatch that tracked his location while in Tampa. "He went for a run, so I was able to see where he was," Drew said.

Ralph confirmed that he was totally solo during this trip. "I didn't go to any strip clubs," he said. "I spent the entire time by myself, no other women."

The RHOA husband said that he had apologized to his wife for his actions and showed remorse again at the reunion. "I apologize to everybody that I actually struck a nerve," Ralph said. "I will never leave again without Drew knowing where I'm going."

All in all, Ralph seemed happy with his time at the RHOA reunion, writing on Instagram as the episode aired, "I came, conquered and delivered. I’m out."

He and Drew also shared some lovely snaps from the night of the reunion on Instagram. "I can still make her smile," Ralph gushed about one dazzling photo of the couple.

Drew opens up more about sharing the highs and lows in her relationship in her inaugural season of RHOA, including how Porsha Williams helped her during a difficult time in her marriage, which you can check out in The Real Housewives of Atlanta After Show, above.

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